Original Advice
“DO: State your boundaries and definition of cheating.”
Name The Line, Then Guard It
Here’s the splinter: if you don’t define cheating, the person who benefits from the blur will. Discomfort doesn’t equal betrayal, and vibes don’t hold up in the court of real life. Screenshots won’t save you from ambiguity. Your heart is fast; your standards must be faster. Name what counts. Name what breaks it. Integrity hates fog. You’re not paranoid—you’re precise.
Boundaries aren’t romance killers; they’re traffic lights. They turn chaos into rhythm. Define categories: secrecy, emotional outsourcing, sexual access, digital behavior, substances as excuses. Mark your non‑negotiables and the consequence that follows. Say it calmly, not mid‑fight. Say it before passion complicates memory. Put it in writing. Require a mirror definition from them. Agreement is the spark, enforcement the flame.
Cosmic Context
Aries is the first spark—initiative is your native language. Mars gives you the right to draw the line and the force to hold it.
Action
──────Write your cheating definition in three bullet points. Send it.
✨ You are allowed to walk away at the first breach. ✨