Zodiac Depths

Here’s the part you don’t want: the cheater is not exciting—they’re inconsistent. Your nervous system calls their chaos chemistry. You chase the spike, confuse it with love, burn through your mornings for their midnight crumbs. Stop pretending you’re impressed. Ask for what actually matters: reliability. If they can’t show up sober, on time, and the same on Tuesday as Friday, they are not a prize.

Excitement is cheap. Consistency costs energy, attention, and self-respect. That cost is the proof. Require patterns, not performances: calls returned, boundaries honored, stories matching week to week. Consistency doesn’t kill desire; it feeds it oxygen without burning the house down. Let boredom detox your appetite for chaos. When the noise drops, you can hear who’s real—and you can hear yourself.