Original Advice
“DONT: Diagnose them; protect your time and energy.”
Stop Playing Detective, Guard Your Fire
Your need to be right keeps you chasing labels. While you draft verdicts, they drain you. Stop diagnosing; it’s a decoy. The mirror they hold is smoke. Your energy leaks through tiny arguments, late texts, post-mortem analysis. Walk out of the courtroom. Guard your mornings, your workouts, your money. Choose silence over speeches. End the autopsy; reclaim the day.
Labels promise control but cost attention. Aries is action; diagnostics delay action. Narcissist or not, the pattern is clear: boundary-pushing, empathy-light, spotlight-hungry. You don’t need a file; you need exits. Spend energy creating momentum, not autopsy. Their confusion feeds on reaction; your silence starves it. Replace debate with distance. When you stop explaining, your minutes turn back into fuel.
Cosmic Context
Mars rules you; your fire is precious. Aim it toward beginnings, not black holes.
Action
──────Mute their notifications for seven days. Do not reply.
✨ You are allowed to choose distance over diagnosis and feel free. ✨