Original Advice
“DONT: Test love with silence, jealousy, or guilt.”
Stop Booby-Trapping Love With Tests
Here is the truth: your silence punishes, not protects. Jealousy is control dressed as care. Guilt is a leash you tighten when you feel small. You stage disappearances to measure devotion, then call it fate. Stop lighting emotional fire drills. Ask plainly, or leave plainly. If you want love, stop sabotaging oxygen. Speak the need. Name the bruise. End the guessing.
Tests don’t measure love; they measure someone’s exhaustion threshold. Silence forces mind-reading. Jealousy turns intuition into sirens. Guilt corrodes trust faster than truth ever could. Love stabilizes when expectations are stated, boundaries are enforced, and care is visible. Your softness needs clarity more than drama. Replace traps with terms: here is what I need, here is what I refuse, here is how I love.
Cosmic Context
You are Moon-ruled: tidal, armored, remembering everything. Your shell protects the pearl, but it also blocks the echo; choose communication over defense.
Action
──────Send the text you're withholding and name the need.
✨ You are allowed to want reassurance without performing a disappearance. ✨