Original Advice

DO: Build a calming routine: sleep, meals, movement.

Schedule Your Need Before It Spills

You are needy. Own it. When you skip sleep, graze on crumbs, and sit still for days, your hunger leaks into every room. You text for reassurance that your body withholds from you. No one can read your waves. They retreat. Stop outsourcing your regulation. Feed yourself on time. Move your limbs. Put your moods on a leash.

Routine is not punishment; it is high tide and low tide on purpose. Sleep closes the portals you keep propping open. Regular meals silence the siren of scarcity. Movement rinses the static clinging to your shell. When your body knows what’s next, your feelings stop screaming. Predictability gives you privacy. Then your care becomes a gift, not a demand.

Cosmic Context

Moon-ruled water needs a shoreline. Rhythm is your home, the crab’s tide table that keeps compassion from flooding the room.

Action

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Lights out 11 pm; eat 8/1/7; walk 20 minutes daily.

You are allowed to feed yourself first, then ask for more.