Original Advice
“DONT: Don’t cancel plans to test their loyalty.”
Stop Staging Loyalty Trapdoors
Canceling plans to see if they'll chase you isn't protection, it's provocation. You turn intimacy into a scavenger hunt and then call it fate. When you flake, you rehearse the ending you fear. If they pursue, you doubt them. If they don't, you punish them. You become the unreliable one while demanding loyalty like a receipt.
Testing love is just control wearing perfume. Cancer wants safety, so you build traps instead of tables. The proof you want doesn't arrive, only distance does. Loyalty grows where plans are kept, not canceled. Show up and let boredom do its quiet work. Consistency is erotic. Predictability is hot. Stop writing quizzes. Start keeping time.
Cosmic Context
Moon-ruled, you ride tides that flood imagination and suspicion alike. Aim the current toward care, not tests; your shell holds better when your calendar does.
Action
──────Keep tonight's plan. Arrive on time. Phone stays in pocket.
✨ You are allowed to be loved without proof. ✨