Original Advice

DO: Ask for reassurance instead of assuming rejection.

Choose Clarity, Not Catastrophe

Here’s the splinter: you keep abandoning yourself first. You go mute, then call their silence rejection. You read gaps as verdicts, and punish people for crimes they haven’t committed. Assumption is a self-fulfilling curse. Ask for warmth instead of bracing for winter. Demand facts. Name the wobble. Clarity isn’t clingy; it’s oxygen. Choose the question over the storm you invent.

Your feelings are real; your prophecy is not. Reassurance is a tool, not a trap. It interrupts the spiral and gives your heart a floor to stand on. Ask simply, early, out loud. Let them answer. Let reality replace the ghost story. If they care, they’ll confirm. If they don’t, you’ll know while you still have strength to leave clean.

Cosmic Context

Moon-ruled, you feel the tide before the weather report. Your shell protects, but it muffles; asking is lunar wisdom—pull the truth in, release what won’t hold you.

Action

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Ask plainly: "Are we okay? I need reassurance today."

You are allowed to need proof without apologizing.