Zodiac Depths

Admit it: you schedule intimacy like a deliverable, chase metrics, and call it care. You assign milestones to feelings, then punish delays with silence. Love refuses your Gantt chart. It misses deadlines, resubmits scope, breaks sprint. Control is your superstition. It keeps you safe and alone. Put down the clipboard. Feelings arrive late, messy, brilliant. Let them ruin your calendar and still count.

Your competence seduces and strangles. You equate order with love because order once fed you. But lovers are not resources, and hearts don't report status. Risk is the price of intimacy. Choose wonder over certainty. Accept variance. Measure less; notice more. When you stop sprinting toward guarantees, you create slack for closeness. The plan was a shield. Put it down so someone can reach you.