Original Advice
“They’re guarded, not pretending: You might be projecting your need for quick intimacy onto someone who builds trust slowly. If their consistency feels boring, that’s about your tolerance for steady effort, not their authenticity.”
Stop Mistaking Calm For Costume
Uncomfortable truth: you want fireworks to certify realness. You call them fake because they won’t spill secrets on cue. You want a key without earning the lock. Their quiet rhythm exposes your addiction to drama. Consistency feels dull only to the restless part of you that mistakes adrenaline for intimacy. That itch is yours. Their reserve is self-respect, not a mask.
Depth: durable bonds are built like stone walls—measured, repetitive, weather-tested. You’re reading absence of overshare as deceit because you equate speed with sincerity. That’s television, not life. Truth shows up on schedule, pays bills, remembers your coffee, shows up again. Track patterns, not confessions. If you can’t stand the tempo, admit you prefer spectacle. Otherwise, breathe, stack days, let predictability do the revealing.
Cosmic Context
Capricorn, Saturn is your clock. You know longevity exposes everything and polish without backbone crumbles.
Action
──────Stop testing them. Log their actions daily for 21 days.
✨ You are allowed to take your time and keep the door shut. ✨