Original Advice
“You can’t outthink your feelings: Using logic to outrun emotion only delays the crash. If you keep switching topics or personas, people feel the distance—so do you.”
Stop Outsmarting Your Heart
Your brain is running PR for your feelings. You pivot, joke, distract; the hurt stays. You surf tabs and personas like channels, but the static follows. People clock the dodge. So do you. Every clever detour grows the gap, then the crash arrives—loud, late, public. Sit still. Name the thing. Let the body speak before your mouth rewrites it.
Your gift is speed. Twin engines, twin stories. Air thrives on options; emotion wants one door, unlocked. When you toggle, you shred signal into noise. Intimacy needs a single frequency to find you. The unsaid finds other exits: snacking, scrolling, sudden rage, perfect timing for nothing. Stop producing narratives. Use nouns. Breath, pulse, tears, hunger. Put facts in the room and let silence do the welding.
Cosmic Context
Mercury built you for velocity and versions. Aim that wind inward; carry a message, not a storm.
Action
──────Stop pivoting mid-conversation; finish the sentence you fear.
✨ You are allowed to be one person at a time. ✨