Original Advice
“DO: Name the behavior and set a boundary.”
Call It. Lock the Gate.
Stop confusing charm with devotion. When someone hijacks your story, drains your applause, or treats your warmth like a charger, name it. Say: That was my moment. Say: You overstepped. Say: I won’t explain this twice. Put nouns on the behavior so it can’t shapeshift into flattery. No riddles. No hints. Accuracy is oxygen. If they scoff, you’ve exposed it. If they retreat, good. The stage has rules now.
Boundaries aren’t cruelty. They’re lighting cues. Clear lines stop the endless improvisation where you apologize for wanting basic respect. State the rule and the consequence, then follow through without fireworks: If you insult me, I leave. If you push past no, you lose access. Repeat as needed. Consistency—boring, plain, unglamorous—breaks the spell. Your life is not general admission. It’s a guest list with security.
Cosmic Context
You’re a Leo: the Sun doesn’t chase planets; it sets orbits. Your boundary is gravity; your naming is light.
Action
──────Say, 'Stop interrupting me. I’m speaking.' Walk away.
✨ You are allowed to end the scene and keep your crown. ✨