Original Advice
“DO: Name the impact, not attack their character.”
Aim Your Roar At Impact
Stop clawing at their soul when a simple bruise will do. Say what their words did to your day, your sleep, your spine. Cut out the moral verdicts. No flares, no throne speeches. Report the damage: "I missed a deadline." "I felt unsafe driving." "I paid the fee." Pin the consequence to the wall. Let it glare. Watch the performance die.
Impact can't be debated. Character always invites courtroom drama. When you name the bill, not the villain, you remove the costume changes and demand payment. Facts shrink gaslight. Timelines puncture charm. Numbers mute crocodile tears. You still get to be blazing, but measured fire cooks the meal. Say what happened, when, and what it cost. Let silence carry the echo.
Cosmic Context
You’re solar royalty; your job is illumination, not incineration. Lead with sunlight that shows the scorch marks and they’ll see themselves without your roar.
Action
──────State three concrete effects, no adjectives, then end the call.
✨ You are allowed to be brief, unsentimental, and finished. ✨