Original Advice

DONT: Don't excuse red flags with astrology.

No Planet Justifies Disrespect

You clock the red flag, then call it a ‘Mercury square’ and stay. Stop making someone’s birth time the escape hatch for your standards. When they lie, it’s not a transit. When they vanish, it’s not an eclipse. It’s behavior. Hold the line. You know the difference between a rough day and a pattern. Choose self-respect over cosmic fan fiction.

Astrology describes tendencies, not alibis. A square pushes growth; it doesn’t write apologies. Compatibility doesn’t cure contempt. Chemistry isn’t consent. If you treat the sky like a courtroom, you’ll keep sentencing yourself to someone else’s chaos. Your chart is a mirror, not a leash. Let the data inform you, then prioritize what they do when nobody’s watching.

Cosmic Context

You are solar: generous, loyal, dramatic about devotion. The Sun exposes; let it illuminate behavior, not excuse it.

Action

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Write three red flags and treat them as nonnegotiables.

You are allowed to end it without consulting the stars.