Original Advice
“DONT: Don’t make choices just to avoid conflict.”
Stop Bartering Peace With Yourself
Every avoided argument is a promise you break to yourself. You call it grace; it is fear wearing perfume. Silence is not diplomacy; it is self-erasure. Peace at any price is expensive; you pay in sleep, appetite, desire. You outsource your choices to keep the room calm, then live with the bill. Let the air shake. Your heart can handle it.
Conflict avoidance buys short-term quiet and sells long-term intimacy. When you refuse to choose, you consent to someone else’s map. Ambivalence confuses the connection more than a clear no. Boundaries are instructions, not walls. The scales only balance when your weight is on them. Choosing locates you in the scene. Dissonance passes; resentment calcifies. Make the micro-choice now, or live the macro-consequence later.
Cosmic Context
As a Venus-ruled air sign, you read rooms like weather. The scales balance only when your desire weighs as much as your diplomacy.
Action
──────Choose one pending decision and state your preference out loud today.
✨ You are allowed to choose yourself without an apology. ✨