Original Advice
“DONT: Don’t ghost people; set clear boundaries instead.”
Stop Disappearing. Draw the Line.
Ghosting isn’t neutrality; it’s avoidance dressed in silk. Stop pretending silence is kindness. You vanish to sidestep discomfort, and leave confusion to do the talking for you. Silence feels elegant, but it muddies the water and stains your mirror. The hard fact: disappearing protects nothing. It erodes trust, invites stories, and keeps your own needs unspoken. Clarity stings once; ambiguity bruises for weeks.
Boundaries are not cruelty; they are coordinates. They mark the edge where you can still be soft without dissolving. When you state what works and what doesn’t, you invite real consent, real care, real time. The right people adjust. The wrong people exit. Either outcome gives you oxygen. You don’t need a thesis. Say it once, cleanly. Then keep it.
Cosmic Context
You’re a Venus-ruled Air sign chasing symmetry. The scales balance only when you place weight on them; a boundary is that weight.
Action
──────Send: I'm stepping back. I'll reply on Sunday.
✨ You are allowed to disappoint people and still be good. ✨