Original Advice
“DONT: Don’t outsource decisions to silence or hints.”
Choose Out Loud, Not Quietly
Face this: when you wait for silence to decide, you hand your life to absence. A shrug, a read receipt, an ellipsis—none of these are answers. Stop decoding tone, stop worshiping the pause. Choose the restaurant. Choose the kiss. Choose the job. If you don’t speak, inertia speaks for you. It rarely has your best.
Silence lets you pretend you’re neutral. You’re not. You’re just hidden. Hints are masks for fear of being disliked. They breed crossed wires, delayed yeses, convenient misunderstandings. Your charm is not a substitute for clarity. Venus wants clean desire, not polite fog. State the meeting time. State your limit. State your want. Then let reality respond. Harmony grows from declared edges.
Cosmic Context
Libra is ruled by Venus and air: beauty, social gravity, and indecision. Your power arrives when you choose first and balance second.
Action
──────Text one clear decision today. No question marks. No emoji.
✨ You are allowed to disappoint someone to stop betraying yourself. ✨