Original Advice
“You are allowed to want what you want. - You don’t need to justify your desires as ‘balance.’ Name them simply and let negotiation happen honestly. Your clarity is a gift—no guilt, no shame.”
Balance Is Not Your Alibi
You crave intensity, not compromise. Stop laundering your wants through the word balance. Name the thing. Name it without garnish, without a smiley face. If it scorches, let it scorch. People can handle a flame; they resent a fog. You do not negotiate by deleting yourself. Speak the exact desire. Let the room adjust. If someone leaves, the truth holds the door.
Desire doesn’t owe anyone math. Balance is the aftermath of honesty, not the precondition. When you declare what you want, you give others a real object to meet, refuse, or reshape. That is respect, not aggression. Clarity shortens suffering and wastes fewer Saturdays. Your Venus wants beauty, but beauty arrives when edges show. Name the edge. Then negotiate like a diplomat with a spine.
Cosmic Context
Cardinal air initiates conversations that change rooms; Venus refines the terms. Your scales measure truth only when each weight is named.
Action
──────Write your top three desires tonight. Say them aloud.
✨ You are allowed to want loudly and let balance come later. ✨