Original Advice
“DO: Ask for explicit commitments, timelines, and definitions of loyalty.”
Make Loyalty Measurable, Not Mystical
Stop pretending loyalty is a vibe. It is a contract. Your politeness has been a loophole, and people have crawled through it. If you want steadiness, stamp it with dates, definitions, and consequences. Ask what "loyal" means to them, to you, in daylight, in crisis. Put numbers on it. Timelines are not rude; vagueness is. If they flinch at clarity, they were already leaving.
Balance needs measurement. Your scales don’t read vibes; they read weight. Dates, check-ins, and definitions turn air into architecture. When you set a cadence - weekly calls, shared plans, repair protocols - you give love a spine. People who intend to stay welcome structure because it frees them to show up. Silence is a decision. So is delay. Write the terms. Repeat them out loud. See who signs without squirming.
Cosmic Context
You are cardinal air ruled by Venus; you initiate harmony, not smoke. The scales of Libra demand contracts, not vibes.
Action
──────Send one message: define loyalty, set dates, confirm consequences.
✨ You are allowed to require terms before giving your devotion. ✨