Original Advice
“DONT: Push decisions in the heat of conflict.”
Loyalty Doesn’t Rush The Verdict
Here’s the sting: you push for verdicts to stop the noise. That isn’t loyalty; that’s panic dressed as commitment. In the blaze of argument, you sign contracts with smoke in your eyes. You force yes or no to prove you care, while your heartbeat throws static. Stop bargaining with fire. Let the heat pass before you crown a winner.
Conflict distorts the scales. Adrenaline tips every tray, making any choice feel righteous, urgent, irreversible. Decisions born from survival chemistry aren’t decisions; they’re exits. Loyalty doesn’t demand speed; it demands accuracy. Time cools the metal, steadies the weights, reveals missing evidence. When the room clears, your mind can measure again. Decide from equilibrium, not from smoke alarms.
Cosmic Context
You’re Venus-ruled air: built to weigh, not to rush. When the winds of conflict howl, your scales tremble; still them, then deliver judgment.
Action
──────Write the decision down. Revisit in 48 hours.
✨ You are allowed to be loyal and undecided. ✨