Original Advice
“You are allowed to ask for clear commitments - Seek specifics, not vibes, and set deadlines that respect both of you. Expecting consistency isn’t “needy”; it’s healthy.”
Dates Over Vibes, Always
Uncomfortable truth: your patience has become camouflage for other people’s indecision. Vibes don’t keep promises; calendars do. Loyalty without terms leaks. If they say they’re in, make them prove it in time and place. Put the question on the table with a clock beside it. Specifics protect your heart. If clarity scares them, you’ve located the answer you were stalling to hear.
Deadlines aren’t cruel; they are humane. They save everyone from ghost-costs and guesswork. Consistency is not a mood, it’s a practice. Your peace begins when agreements do. Want loyalty? Weigh it. Name what weekly looks like. Name response windows. Name how you celebrate and how you exit. When someone resists the basics, believe the data. Clarity turns attraction into reliability, and reliability is the only romance that lasts.
Cosmic Context
Venus rules you; the scales define you. Structure is how your love finds equilibrium.
Action
──────Send a message asking for a specific date by Friday.
✨ You are allowed to demand timelines and keep your softness. ✨