Original Advice
“DONT: Don't monitor their phone or social media.”
Drop the Surveillance. Choose Trust.
Here’s the sharp edge: every time you check their phone, you confess you don’t trust yourself. You turn love into an evidence locker and call it care. Surveillance doesn’t prevent betrayal; it breeds it. You are feeding a hungry ghost that never gets full. Your intuition gets scrambled when you snoop. The more you check, the less you actually see. Drop the case. Stop policing what you claim to love.
You merge easily, and your radar picks up static as prophecy. When you monitor, you outsource intuition to algorithms and call the anxiety data. Suspicion multiplies in tabs. Privacy is oxygen; without it, intimacy chokes. Real trust is built in daylight: clear asks, consistent actions, time. If there’s a crack, it reveals itself without your net. Use your sensitivity to listen in the room, not haunt their screens.
Cosmic Context
As a porous water sign ruled by Neptune, you absorb currents and call them truth. Your magic works when you choose boundaries and surrender, not surveillance.
Action
──────Delete the saved passwords and stop logging into their accounts.
✨ You are allowed to not know and still feel safe. ✨