Original Advice
“DONT: Don't test love with silent treatments.”
Love Isn't a Guessing Game
Your silence isn't depth; it's control. When you shut down to see who chases, you turn affection into a maze. You dress it up as sensitivity, but it's possession in soft clothing. You want proof. They get confusion. Love doesn't grow under ice. It stalls. It shrinks. Stop mistaking withdrawal for power. Speak or step aside.
Silent treatment turns attachment into a lab experiment. It rewards panic and punishes calm. It teaches partners to manage you, not meet you. Intimacy needs data: tone, timing, a sentence with a verb. Your need is real; the method is corrosive. Ask for reassurance like an adult. Choose clarity over control. Replace the test with a request and watch trust return.
Cosmic Context
Mutable water merges fast and grips when scared. Neptune gives you fog and faith—choose faith and speak.
Action
──────Say exactly what you want in one sentence, today.
✨ You are allowed to ask for reassurance without punishing anyone. ✨