Original Advice
“DO: Do trust patterns over promises and poetic apologies.”
Count the Repeats, Not Rhetoric
Here's the rot: people show you who they are by reruns, not soliloquies. Fake nice wears velvet while it picks your pockets. Your soft heart is the mark. Trust the calendar, not the cadence. Note the loop: charm, lapse, sugar-coated sorry, repeat. If their actions don't change, the truth already spoke. Stop reopening closed chapters. Drop the pen. Walk out mid-monologue.
Promises are cheap because they cost nothing in the present; patterns are expensive because they charge interest over time. Apologies perform; behavior pays. Consistency is the currency of care. When someone repeats a harm, believe the repetition. Let data dull the dream. Count missed calls, broken plans, sideways jokes. Your kindness is sacred, not community property. Protect it with math. Reality is devotional, not cynical.
Cosmic Context
Neptune rules you; fog is your native weather. Use Saturn's metronome: tides, trends, timestamps.
Action
──────Keep a daily behavior ledger for 21 days.
✨ You are allowed to believe what you see, not what you hear. ✨