Original Advice
“You are allowed to want steadiness and space - State your boundaries, timelines, and check-ins without apologizing. Sagittarius can handle clear terms; if they can’t meet them, that’s data, not a failure. You don’t owe chaos to prove you’re fun.”
Set Terms, Keep Your Fire
Your spontaneity has become a smokescreen. You call it freedom; it’s avoidance. You outsource discomfort to the future and call it adventure. Stop performing flexibility for people who don’t plan for you. Name what you need, when you need it, and how you’ll check in. If they flinch at timing, they’re not a match. You don’t owe volatility to be interesting.
Structure protects your range. Archers hit targets because they choose them. Boundaries are navigation, not walls. Deadlines, check-ins, and lead times get you more of what you want: real adventure, not last-minute scraps. When someone can’t meet clear terms, that’s information. Adjust course, not your worth. Make room for recovery, silence, and consistency. Fire needs oxygen. Space keeps your flame clean.
Cosmic Context
You’re mutable fire ruled by Jupiter: big vision, quick aim. The centaur demands both hoof on ground and arrow in flight.
Action
──────Today, text your terms: timeline, check-ins, dealbreakers. No apology.
✨ You are allowed to choose steadiness and still be the adventure. ✨