Original Advice

DO: State your needs early, in plain language.

Say It First, Save Time

Stop hiding behind spontaneity and charm. Your vagueness breeds confusion you later call "bad timing." When you skip the opening terms, you manufacture loopholes to run through. State what you need before the first kiss, not after the first disaster. Name your speed, your boundaries, your calendar. If they flinch, good. You saved a month. If they lean in, better. Now begin.

You chase horizon after horizon because you fear cages. Information isn’t a cage. It’s the map. Early clarity frees you from guesswork, testing, and secret auditions. It filters the bored, the clingy, the indecisive. It protects your time and their feelings. Plain language turns chemistry into alignment, or into a clean exit. Either result expands your life. Ambiguity only shrinks it.

Cosmic Context

You are the Archer: aim, release, land. Jupiter rewards blunt truth delivered early.

Action

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Before date three, say your three non-negotiables out loud.

You are allowed to want freedom and devotion in the same house.