Original Advice
“DONT: Don't romanticize mixed signals as passionate independence.”
Stop Worshiping Ambiguity as Freedom
Stop dressing confusion in leather and calling it chemistry. Mixed signals are not wild hearts; they're exit signs with glitter. You chase sparks because consistency feels like gravity, and gravity scares you. When they vanish for days and return at midnight, that's not independence. That's avoidance, yours and theirs. Name it. Don't kiss the mirage. Choose reality over adrenaline.
Ambiguity lets you keep running without admitting you're running. If no one defines the bond, you never have to show up fully. But freedom doesn't shrink from clarity. Real independence holds a calendar, answers a text, makes a plan, and still breathes. Certainty is a trailhead, not a trap. Direction expands your map. Wandering requires a compass.
Cosmic Context
You are a Jupiter-lit archer. Your arrow flies far only when you pick a target; haze steals your aim.
Action
──────Ask for a plan for the next week; leave if foggy.
✨ You are allowed to demand clarity and keep your wildness. ✨