Original Advice
“DONT: Don't test loyalty by creating avoidable crises.”
Stop Manufacturing Fires to Feel Warm
Stop dressing insecurity as strategy. You call it a test. It is a trap. You light small fires to watch who runs toward you. That is not loyalty; it is fear in a costume. Every staged emergency steals oxygen from real connection. You bruise what you want to keep. Control does not equal safety. Let the drama sit in the group chat, not your living room.
Admit what you actually want: certainty without asking. Manufactured chaos looks efficient. Push, watch, conclude. It also poisons the well. People perform in fires; they disappear in peace. Real loyalty is boring: repeated presence, unglamorous care, untelevised truth. If you need proof, request it. If you fear loss, name it. Let evidence accrue in daylight. Stop outsourcing trust to adrenaline. Choose the slow, unsexy metric: consistency over spectacle.
Cosmic Context
You are fixed water, ruled by Mars and Pluto: intensity is your native tongue. Your power sharpens when you stop summoning storms and read the tide instead.
Action
──────Cancel the staged fight. Ask directly for reassurance tonight.
✨ You are allowed to accept quiet loyalty without testing it. ✨