Original Advice
“You are allowed to want deep loyalty and space - You can ask for reassurance and set boundaries without apology. You can take time to self-soothe instead of controlling others. Drop the guilt; you’re building healthier love.”
Demand Devotion, Release Your Grip
Stop pretending your hunger for certainty is casual. You count replies, read tone, build cases in silence. That isn’t love; that’s surveillance. Ask for what you want in daylight: loyalty and room to breathe. Say it clean. If they flinch, note it. If they meet you, relax your fists. Replace interrogation with a request. Replace tests with truth.
Control is a homemade sedative that wears off fast. Your body wants calm; your mind starts building cages. Break the loop. Name your boundary once. Ask for reassurance without the cross-exam. Then go regulate your own storm: a walk, a shower, a journal with no audience. When you soothe yourself, you stop outsourcing safety. When you stop policing, intimacy breathes and loyalty grows roots.
Cosmic Context
You are fixed water: deep, pressurized, relentless. Mars and Pluto mark you for devotion and strategy; use both to build trust, not traps.
Action
──────Ask for a daily check-in; stop checking their phone.
✨ You are allowed to be loved without patrolling the perimeter. ✨