Original Advice
“DO: Speak plainly about feelings and intentions.”
Name the Want, Not the Wound
Say it without smoke. Your secrets don’t make you safer; they make you solitary. Lovers are not codebreakers. Stop testing people with silence, with traps, with heat that never names itself. Want is not weakness; it is coordinates. Speak the desire, the boundary, the limit. State the yes and the no. Love is lost in subtext. Precision pulls it back.
Plain speech is strategy, not softness. It sets the battlefield rules and ends the endless reading of tea leaves. When you name your intention, you reclaim time, consent, and dignity—for both of you. Your magnetism intensifies when it has a target. Water needs a channel. Give your passion edges and direction. Cut ambiguity. Invite direct reciprocation or walk. Clarity burns cleaner than fantasy.
Cosmic Context
Fixed water turns stagnant when it hides. Mars and Pluto gift you surgical truth—use it to move intimacy from undertow to tide.
Action
──────Text them exactly what you want from tonight, before meeting.
✨ You are allowed to be obvious. You are allowed to prefer rejection over confusion. ✨