Original Advice
“DONT: Don't overshare their secrets or force vulnerability.”
Protect Secrets. Stop Excavating.
Here’s the cut: you call it intimacy, but you interrogate. You demand confessions, then parade them as proof of closeness. You leak what isn't yours to signal trust. That's not love; that's leverage. Your hunger for depth turns surgical steel. They flinch. The air goes thin. Under your spotlight, petals close. Romance starves when privacy is harvested. Control masquerades as care.
Depth doesn't require extraction. Protection does. Fixed water binds by containment, not by spilling. Secrets are currency; spend theirs and you bankrupt safety. Eros ferments in the dark. Volunteered truths taste sweeter than forced ones. Your power increases with restraint. Leave silence in the room and let them step into it. Guard what you're given and watch trust harden, not crack.
Cosmic Context
Ruled by Mars and Pluto, you penetrate and transform; containment focuses that force. As fixed water, your magnetism deepens when you protect the well, not when you drain it.
Action
──────When asked about them, say: Ask them directly.
✨ You are allowed to keep what's sacred unspoken and still be loved. ✨