Original Advice
“DO: Ask about pace, boundaries, and aftercare upfront.”
Set the Tempo, Own the Afterglow
Stop pretending intuition covers consent. It doesn’t. When you skip the conversation, you center your own comfort and call it chemistry. That’s laziness dressed as romance. Ask about pace, boundaries, and aftercare before you reach for anything. If your desire is real, it can survive three honest questions. Make the script together, then perform it like it matters.
Your body is an instrument of tempo, not a bulldozer. Pacing builds voltage; boundaries focus it; aftercare stores it in trust. You crave luxury—this is luxury: clarity that lets you indulge without guessing. Ask what slow means. Ask what no means. Ask what they need after. Water? Silence? A playlist? A text tomorrow? Precision turns stamina into devotion.
Cosmic Context
You are fixed earth, ruled by Venus. Structure makes your pleasure abundant and safe, turning stubborn rhythm into dependable ecstasy.
Action
──────Ask three questions before touching: pace, boundaries, aftercare—then confirm.
✨ You are allowed to be slow, explicit, and adored. ✨