Original Advice
“DO: Create a cozy, sensory-friendly environment together.”
Pleasure Requires Infrastructure
You keep pretending you’re spontaneous, but your body runs on ritual. Stop performing chaos. Comfort turns you on faster than bravado: clean sheets, warm light, steady breath, a door that actually closes. Eliminate grit, glare, noise. Curate scent, texture, temperature. If your shoulders are braced, no one opens. Build the nest before you hunt. Make the room say yes for you.
Your senses are the throttle. Rough tags, stale air, a buzzing phone—each steals voltage. Attention is oxygen; distraction is a drip. Luxurious doesn’t mean expensive; it means chosen. Weighted blanket or crisp linen. A playlist that paces breath. Water on the nightstand. Dimmer over switch. Predictable cues teach your nervous system to downshift, so heat has somewhere to land and grow.
Cosmic Context
Venus rules you; the body is your oracle. When pleasure has structure, Taurus becomes inexhaustible.
Action
──────Turn off notifications, wash the sheets, light one unscented candle.
✨ You are allowed to demand comfort before giving anything. ✨