Original Advice
“Logic won’t save you from feeling: You’ve been project-managing your heart to avoid mess. It looks efficient, but it keeps intimacy at arm’s length. Feel it first; fix it second.”
Stop Project-Managing Your Heart
Stop spreadsheeting your feelings. You’ve been scheduling grief between meetings and labeling desire like office supplies. Control cleans your counters but it rots your tenderness. You collect data on people instead of letting them touch you. Efficiency is the mask you wear when you’re scared. It works until someone hugs you and you can’t exhale. Feel first. Let the mess track mud across the floor.
Your heart is not a workflow. It breaks the template on purpose. Intimacy needs friction, not QA. When you optimize for neat endings, you starve the middle where connection grows. You learned that competence earns love, so you overdeliver and under-reveal. The price is distance measured in spotless kitchens and quiet beds. Let feeling interrupt the plan. Let sensation outrank analysis for one unedited hour.
Cosmic Context
You are mutable earth ruled by Mercury: built to sort, refine, repair. That genius curates beauty, but it cages you when you audit longing instead of living it.
Action
──────Call the person; say 'I miss you' before explaining.
✨ You are allowed to be loved while unfinished. ✨