Original Advice
“DO: Notice and thank their quiet acts of service.”
Praise The Unseen Work
Your standards swallow tenderness. You clock what’s missing faster than what’s done. Someone refills the coffee, takes the trash, forwards the file, remembers your weird oat milk. You breeze past it and edit the world instead. That’s not precision. That’s hunger posing as usefulness. Turn around. Point to the small thing. Say it out loud. Exactness without gratitude curdles into loneliness.
Noticing is stewardship, not flattery. When you name the labor, you make space for more care. People repeat what is witnessed. Your words are instruments; they tune the room. Your brain hunts errors; train it to catch devotion. Thanking is a repair, not a performance. It keeps resentment from calcifying. It lets service stay service instead of a scoreboard.
Cosmic Context
You are mutable earth ruled by Mercury; you sort, refine, and keep worlds running. Use that blade of attention to bless the helpers, not just shave off flaws.
Action
──────Send three specific thank-you messages before sunset.
✨ You are allowed to receive care without earning it. ✨