Original Advice
“DONT: Don't confuse honest feedback with personal attack.”
Stop Taking Precision Personally
Truth isn’t a slap. It’s a mirror. You asked for clarity, then called it cruelty when it landed. Your pride hides under 'being nice,' but bristles at any seam that shows. Stop equating your work with your worth. Feedback exposes the craft, not the core. Stand still when it stings. Let the heat pass. Listen for the line you can use.
Feedback is a tool, not a verdict. Data, not drama. If you treat every note like an attack, you train people to lie to you and you stay small. Precision requires friction. Separate identity from iteration. Sort signal from noise. Keep the cut that sharpens. Drop the rest. Return to the work with cooler hands and a cleaner aim.
Cosmic Context
Virgo is Mercury’s meticulous apprentice: earth-bound, detail-drunk, born to refine. Your gift is discernment; your trap is conflating correction with condemnation.
Action
──────Repeat out loud: This is data, not a verdict.
✨ You are allowed to be imperfect and still be exacting. ✨