Original Advice
“It's not just their sign: If every Virgo feels 'mean' to you, the pattern may be weak boundaries or unspoken needs. Astrology explains tendencies, not tone. Say what's okay and what's not—or expect repeats.”
Blame Boundaries, Not Virgo
Harsh truth: If every Virgo reads as mean, your silence is the accomplice. Weak boundaries invite sharp edges. Unspoken needs turn their precision into a blade. You swallow the 'no,' they serve you critique. You hope for intuition, they operate on data. Stop outsourcing your comfort to guesswork. Name what's okay and what's not, out loud, before the pattern sets like concrete.
Virgo trims excess to make things work. Without guardrails, they optimize for efficiency, not feelings. Structure guides them; vagueness provokes fixes. Every time you let a line be crossed, you teach the algorithm to repeat. Calibrate the system. Set terms, timeframes, and consequences. Say it once, then act. Consistency is kinder than resentment. Boundaries don't bruise; they steer.
Cosmic Context
Mercury-ruled earth refines through critique and service. Clear limits give Virgo a target; otherwise they sharpen in the dark.
Action
──────State one boundary out loud, then enforce it.
✨ You are allowed to require kindness without apologizing. ✨