Original Advice
“DO: Ask for the reassurance you actually want.”
Ask For The Exact Signal
You crave proof while pretending you're above needing it. You toss hints like confetti and call it sovereignty. Then you resent the wrong answers. No one can read the map you keep encrypted. Stop fishing with aloofness. Name the thing. Say: Tell me I'm safe with you. Precision is not neediness. It's engineering. Ask for the words, the timing, the touch. Out loud, without apology.
Your independence is a costume stitched from fear of being owned. Reassurance is not a leash; it's a calibration signal. Without it, your mind runs simulations, writes endings, files people under 'unreliable.' Direct requests test reality faster than surveillance. If they meet you, intimacy grows. If they refuse, data acquired. Either way, you stop negotiating with ghosts and start designing the relationship you actually inhabit.
Cosmic Context
Fixed Air, ruled by Saturn and Uranus, you broadcast to the collective yet jam your private channel. Asking directly aligns Saturn’s structure with Uranus’s clean shock: stable signal, honest change.
Action
──────Text them: 'I need explicit reassurance today. Say it plainly.'
✨ You are allowed to ask twice, calmly, without shrinking. ✨