Original Advice
“DONT: Don't demand instant vulnerability on your timeline.”
Stop Speedrunning Intimacy, Water-Bearer
Stop demanding confessions on your schedule. Your impatience is control dressed as care. You want the download, not the delay. You interrogate softness like data. That urgency creates performance, not closeness. Let silence breathe. Let people arrive intact, not extracted. You can't expedite trust like a shipping upgrade. Stand still. Bite your questions. Feel the gap you keep dodging.
Intimacy is a climate, not a code push. Bodies thaw over time. Nervous systems calibrate. The first truth given is often a test balloon. Demand more and you pop it. Your genius is system-building; use it to set a humane tempo. Consistency is eros. Routine is romance. Send the meme, make the tea, show up again. Proof accumulates. Doors open without prying.
Cosmic Context
You’re fixed air: brilliant, idealist, ruled by Saturn and Uranus. You engineer futures, then forget hearts need lag time to render.
Action
──────Ask one real question, then shut up for five minutes.
✨ You are allowed to wait, to be chosen without pushing. ✨