Original Advice
“You are allowed to... be intense and still kind - Intensity is energy, not a moral flaw. Step away, cool off, and come back clear - without apologizing for having big feelings. Release shame; take ownership of delivery and impact.”
Turn Heat Into Clean Fire
Here’s the part you avoid: your anger lands louder than your logic. You mistake velocity for clarity. Intensity is fuel, not a personality trait. When you blast, people duck instead of listen. Step out before you scorch. Walk once around the block, cold water, three breaths. Return with the blade, not the blaze. Do not apologize for the weather inside you. Own where the sparks flew.
Anger is a battery. It lights the room when wired; it burns it down when loose. Your job is routing, not shrinking. Translate heat into sentences: one need, one boundary, one timeline. Speak in verbs, not smoke. Name behavior, not character. Choose timing like a striker chooses a shot. Cool body, warm voice, clear ask. Then let silence work.
Cosmic Context
You are cardinal fire, ruled by Mars. You were built for ignition; the lesson is aim.
Action
──────When angry, take a cold rinse and write three sentences.
✨ You are allowed to keep the fire and upgrade the delivery. ✨