Original Advice
“Your temper isn't everyone's problem: Being 'passionate' doesn't excuse blowups. If people flinch around your intensity, the effect is the same as anger. Own the blast radius - and learn to aim it.”
Aim Your Fire, Don't Shatter
Intensity is not a gift when it scorches everyone near you. Your rage doesn’t read as passion; it reads as danger. Flinches count as feedback. If people brace for impact, the impact is you. Own the blast radius. Stop calling it honesty when it’s a detonation. Power without aim is noise. You're not the only one in the room.
Fire is sacred when contained. You were built for ignition, not wildfires. People don’t parse your intentions; their nervous systems read tone, volume, speed. Anger steals precision and then calls it truth. Precision is respect. Aim the force at problems, not bystanders. Count the cost of each blast: time, trust, repairs. Choose strategy over spectacle. Keep the temple from smoking.
Cosmic Context
Mars rules you. Use its edge for initiation, not intimidation.
Action
──────When heat rises, close your mouth and breathe for 30 seconds.
✨ You are allowed to walk away mid-argument without proving anything. ✨