Original Advice
“DO: Name your need without blaming or cornering.”
Want Something? Say It Straight
Your possessiveness isn’t passion; it’s camouflage for fear. Tight fists bruise what you claim to protect. When you circle and test, you train people to hide. Speak the raw want: attention, touch, presence, exclusivity, a plan. Say it in daylight. No interrogations. No traps. If they stay, good. If they don’t, you learn faster. Control is a tourniquet; desire needs blood flow.
Directness is your blade. Use it to carve clarity, not to corner prey. Naming the need gives another person something real to meet or refuse, and that saves hours of surveillance and salt. Questions shaped like accusations breed defense; statements shaped like wants invite action. You don’t need evidence, you need courage. Ask for frequency, boundaries, proof of plan. Then watch what they actually do.
Cosmic Context
You’re Mars-ruled: built for clean starts, not stalking shadows. Your power is the straight line, not the snare.
Action
──────Say: 'I want two nights a week—yes or no?'
✨ You are allowed to want fiercely without surveilling anyone. ✨