Original Advice
“DONT: Don't scroll their phone looking for reassurance.”
Stop Hunting For Proof In Pockets
Drop the phone. You're not investigating; you're feeding a fire. Every swipe says you don't trust them, or yourself. You call it vigilance, but it's hunger for certainty, dressed as love. If there's a lie, the screen won't fix it. Raiding privacy turns your courage into suspicion. Control is not intimacy. Choose dignity over data. Leave the itch unanswered. Let the unknown burn without consuming you.
Your engine loves speed, conflict, certainty. Snooping scratches that itch like a quick fight, then leaves you emptier. Real closeness requires risk. Trust is a decision, not a data set. If you need proof, you already have an answer. Point your heat at clarity, not surveillance. Ask the hard question out loud. Set a boundary. If it's ignored, walk. Protect your fire by acting, not lurking.
Cosmic Context
Aries is ruled by Mars; you chase battles. Your lesson is courage with restraint: choosing directness over covert skirmishes.
Action
──────Put their phone down and ask one direct question.
✨ You are allowed to want reassurance without turning into a detective. ✨