Original Advice
“DO: Schedule weekly check-ins and solo downtime.”
Own Your Time, Not Them
Your possessiveness doesn’t prove love; it proves adrenaline. You chase reassurance like a hunter, then call it loyalty. You refresh threads, count minutes, read tone between periods. When passion spikes, you barricade. The fire you aim at them scorches your own oxygen. Control is counterfeit intimacy. Stop guarding the door. Guard the calendar. If you want steadiness, build it, don’t police it.
Ritual tames urgency. A standing check-in lets the questions sit until they’re invited. A fixed pocket of solitude burns off the static before it turns into suspicion. Structure protects desire from your reflexes. Put your intensity on the calendar, not their throat. Consistency is the kink. Predictable touchpoints make room for heat. Absence becomes fuel, not proof of betrayal.
Cosmic Context
As a Mars-ruled cardinal fire sign, you generate heat on contact. Give it rhythm or it overruns the room.
Action
──────Schedule Sunday 20-minute check-in; block Wednesday 90-minute solo blackout.
✨ You are allowed to log off without a reason. ✨