Original Advice
“DO: State the pace you can genuinely sustain.”
Name Your Speed Out Loud
Stop sprinting into contracts you can’t finish. You hype the spark, book three futures, then choke on the follow-through. Your silence after the high isn’t mystery; it’s avoidance. State your stamina before the first kiss, the first pitch, the first promise. Say how often you can show up, and when you vanish. Kill the suspense. Replace chase with clarity.
Speed is a love language and a weapon. When you name your cadence, you lower the burn rate. You protect the project from your impulsive yes and your inevitable no. Pacing builds trust faster than fireworks because it survives daylight, deadlines, and dull Tuesdays. People calibrate to clocks, not vibes. Rhythm creates intimacy. Consistency is erotic when you’re the one keeping time.
Cosmic Context
You're cardinal fire—ignition is your gift, endurance your lesson. Mars gives thrust; your life gets better when you master timing.
Action
──────Say: 'I reply within 24 hours. I meet weekly.'
✨ You are allowed to be consistent instead of impressive. ✨