Original Advice
“DO: Schedule novelty dates to feed your fire.”
Schedule Sparks, Not Exits
Here’s the unpretty truth: you don’t fear commitment, you fear boredom. When the thrill dips, you mute texts, pick a fight, or sprint toward a new spark. You call it freedom; it’s just you dodging maintenance. Stop worshiping the chase and starving the bond. The fire dies because you refuse to feed it on purpose. Choose structure that excites you, not chaos that flatters your ego.
Your engine runs on novelty and friction. Deny it and you manufacture drama to feel alive. Redirect it. Build a calendar that throws you and your person into new terrains: night classes, climbing walls, midnight markets, firsts you can count. Anticipation becomes fuel. Consistency becomes a launchpad, not shackles. Schedule surprise on purpose so your fire has oxygen and your love stops living on emergency mode.
Cosmic Context
Mars rules you; ignition is easy, stewardship is the test. Feed the flame with intention and you become unstoppable instead of unreliable.
Action
──────Book four unusual dates for the next month today.
✨ You are allowed to demand excitement and still stay. ✨