Original Advice
“DONT: Love-bomb, then vanish when routine shows up.”
From Fireworks to Firewood
You flood beginnings with fireworks, then disappear the moment Tuesday repeats. You call it intuition, but it's escape. You love the chase more than the person. Your grand openings create debts your attention won’t pay. Stop promising a sunrise you won’t show up to watch. If you can slam the gas, you can hold the wheel. Stay when the dishes clink.
Routine is the lab where real desire is tested. Your nervous system craves combustion and novelty. But romance matures in repetition. Disappearances train others not to trust your warmth. Consistency is not self-betrayal; it's proof. Let friction dull the fantasy and sharpen the bond. Choose the lukewarm text, the ride home, the small errands. Practice showing up without trumpets.
Cosmic Context
Aries is cardinal fire: built for first sparks, not maintenance. Mars gives you ignition; wisdom asks for fuel, oxygen, and patience.
Action
──────Text them at 7 p.m. daily for the next 21 days.
✨ You are allowed to be consistent and still feel wild. ✨