Original Advice
“You are allowed to require clarity and trust - Ask direct questions, define monogamy, and request transparency if that’s your standard. You don’t owe anyone tolerance for secrecy or mixed signals. Walking away from repeated dishonesty is self-respect, not overreacting.”
Clarity Over Chemistry, Every Time
Uncomfortable truth: if someone benefits from your confusion, they will keep you confused. Secrecy isn’t a mystery; it’s a tactic. Mixed signals aren’t romantic; they’re camouflage. Define monogamy out loud. Ask the blunt questions. Refuse the fog. When answers wobble, believe the wobble. This isn’t cynicism. It’s navigation. You don’t punish dishonesty; you exit it. That is not drama. That is a boundary with teeth.
Trust is the oxygen of desire. Without it, every kiss needs proof. Your time is a finite fuel; don’t burn it proving what someone else keeps hiding. Define what fidelity means—DMs, lunches, late-night friends, location sharing, condoms, the whole boring list. Integrity loves daylight. Cheating needs shade. Ask for transparency because you intend to enjoy your life, not audit it.
Cosmic Context
Aries is cardinal fire, ruled by Mars—initiative and clean edges. You don’t decode riddles; you light them up and walk through.
Action
──────Ask plainly: 'Are we monogamous? Yes or no, now.'
✨ You are allowed to walk away from secrecy and keep your peace. ✨