Original Advice
“Zodiac isn't a diagnosis: Calling someone a narcissist because they're Aries avoids the real work: naming harmful behaviors and setting limits. If they mock, gaslight, or never repair, that's the issue—regardless of sign. Act on patterns, not horoscopes.”
Blame Patterns, Not Planets
Calling someone a narcissist because they're Aries is a shortcut that keeps you stuck. Name what actually happens: the mocking in front of friends, the revision of history, the disappearing after a blow-up, the no-apology cycle. Track what repeats. Astrology isn't making them ignore repair; choices are. Stop blaming birth charts for bruises. Act on what you can count, not on what you can cast.
Labels feel tidy; they outsource effort. Aries energy is built for something harder: clean confrontation, decisive limits, fast course-correction. Aim your fire at facts. Frequency matters. Duration matters. What they do after being called out matters. If they refuse repair, believe the pattern. Mars doesn't negotiate with maybes. Cut the rope you keep tying around your own ankles and walk.
Cosmic Context
As a Mars-ruled fire sign, you were born to move first and tell the truth out loud. Use that engine to separate myth from measurable behavior.
Action
──────Log six incidents this week and name the boundary for each.
✨ You are allowed to leave mid-conversation when repair is refused. ✨