Original Advice
“Sensitivity isn’t a free pass: Feeling deeply doesn’t excuse mood swings or silent treatment. If you want closeness, say what’s happening instead of expecting mind-reading. Your shell protects you, but it can also keep people out.”
Your Shell Isn’t a Language
Your sensitivity is not a hall pass. It stings, but it’s true: mood swings don’t translate, the silent treatment punishes, and guessing games exhaust the people who care about you. Stop assuming telepathy. Speak before the tides flip the table. Your shell keeps you safe, but it also blocks rescue boats. If you want closeness, open the hatch, even when the weather is rough.
Feeling deeply is a power, not a shield. Emotions are data, not orders. When you don't name them, they leak as storms: slamming doors, vanishing acts, sharp claws. Clarity is kinder than protectionism. Say the simple sentence: I feel X because Y, I need Z. It’s not poetry; it’s scaffolding. Build a bridge so others can cross without bleeding.
Cosmic Context
Moon-ruled, you carry the tides inside your ribcage. The Crab survives by sheltering, but your season ripens when you let lit windows guide others home.
Action
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