Original Advice
“DO: Define exclusivity in plain, specific terms”
Make Exclusivity a Signed Contract
Cheaters thrive in fog. If the terms are fuzzy, they will read them as permission. Name the line. Say what counts as cheating in real life and online. Spell out: no secret DMs, no 'work spouse,' no midnight confessions with exes, no testing the market. Define consequences. Put it in their calendar. Put it in yours.
Clarity isn't romance-killing; it's romance-proofing. You build skyscrapers, not sandcastles. Contracts protect value, including yours. Vows without terms age poorly under stress and boredom. Specifics free you from exhausting guesswork: what updates are expected, how you handle attraction, how you end things before starting new ones. Write it once. Refer to it when feelings try to blur the edges.
Cosmic Context
Saturn sharpened your spine for this. Capricorn builds boundaries like scaffolding: visible, load-bearing, non-negotiable.
Action
──────Send a message listing five nonnegotiables for exclusivity today.
✨ You are allowed to require terms before trust. ✨